Foundations
The polyvagal frame. The case that safety precedes cognitive work, that the body has to come online before meaning can stick, and that the practical question isn't how do I think differently but which state is my system in right now.
June 11, 2026
What this does: reframes affirmations as a ventral-state intervention — the polyvagal frame, the three circuits, and why the practice either lands or feels fake depending on what your system is doing underneath.
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June 28, 2026
What this does: argues that safety is the active mechanism of healing, not its backdrop. The window of tolerance, attachment patterns, co-regulation, and why the body has to come online before the work of meaning-making can stick.
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Regulation Practices
The body-first work. Somatic awareness, self-compassion as a regulation intervention (not positive thinking), and the case that the precision of what you name changes what your body does next.
June 27, 2026
What this does: builds somatic awareness as a skill. Listening to sensation before the story arrives, treating interoceptive signal as a valid form of knowing, and the slow move toward a body that trusts itself again.
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July 1, 2026
What this does: replaces the "think positive" reflex with self-compassion as a regulation intervention. Kristin Neff's three-component model and Paul Gilbert's CFT soothe circuit, applied in the body rather than the head.
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July 5, 2026
What this does: makes the case that emotional precision is itself a regulation practice. Lisa Feldman Barrett's research on constructed emotion, interoception, and why naming the feeling precisely is what lets the body complete the response.
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